Iβm sure most of it was Restaurant Server 101 sort of stuff:
- greeting us with a smile
- confirming our order before she left the table
- returning promptly with our drinks
- cleaning the table when a very small part of one of the drinks spilled over the top
- quickly finding us a table inside to move to when it started to rain outside
- checking in to let us know our food would be served soon
- bringing us water without asking
- asking us right after our food had been delivered if everything was correct
- coming back shortly afterward to ask how everything was
- asking one last time if there was anything else we needed, and then returning promptly with the check (this last one is one that really bugs me)
- laughing, well, at least smiling, at one of my stupid jokes
If you look at the list, there is nothing out of the ordinary about it.
But when someone pulls it all together, which in my experience is a rare event, it makes for a pleasant and memorable experience.
So hopefully, both our word of thanks and our tip, were enough to show our gratitude for a job well done.
*image from Glassdoor.com
She is awesome
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Indeed she was!
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Yeah, why couldn’t they forget the check? LOL! Wonderful that you had great service and I am sure that if she wasn’t laughing out loud at your jokes, that on the inside she was laughing at you….I mean at your jokes. π
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That would be nice if somehow the check was forgottenβ¦ Iβd give a really big tip then π
And she would not have been the first server to be laughing at meβ¦
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Haha! I am sure the waitresses are happy to serve you and appreciate your jokes. Fun customers were the best parf when I was a waitress.
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Did you really mean barf in that funny customers made you barf? π
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πΆπ€!
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yay! I haven’t seen one of those in a while. I guess with Tippy away… π
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Yes, Stop messing with my peaceful time!
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I had just the opposite experience recently. I placed a takeout order at a restaurant that will remain anonymous (the initials are Cracker Barrel). π The manager wound up giving me two free meals but I’d much prefer decent service.
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I’m still trying to figure out what those initials stand for π
And hopefully the two free meals made things a little better…
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Free food is almost as good as free money. π
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depends on the food π
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It’s a fine line between being attentive and annoying. However, I’d much rather have them offer too much service than too little. I believe in giving substantial tips when they’re efficient, communicative, and friendly,
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I agree that it is a fine line, Pete. But this server was able to stay on the right side of that line. And I try to do the same with tipping as well…
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That is great service! Great service is just as important as the food.
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I agree; it makes the experience more enjoyable…
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Most of the time I am in awe of restaurant attendants. I went through your list here – don’t think you left anything out – and it is a demanding job. Multiply that by the number of tables they must cover…
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It is a tough job; it’s a shame that in the U.S. they have to rely so much on tips as part of their compensation…
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I agree this type of exceptional customer service is rare these days. But on those occasions that you encounter it, it is always memorable!
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so much so, that I decided to write about it!
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Awesome!!
You wouldn’t believe the hissy fits when, due to ongoing drought, restaurants were not allowed to serve water unless a customer asked for it!! You’d think it was replaced with a mandatory punch in the face!
I can’t imagine how much water was saved by that simple change… plus no glasses needing to be washed, and freeing up a few seconds of server time, and selling people more expensive drinks! Multi-level win!!
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so customers had to opt-in, as opposed to opt-out, for water…
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Exactly!
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Yep, that’s just how it should be.
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but unfortunately, it isn’t always that way…
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I know. π
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Hehe, laughing at my joke would definitely earn extra points lol… One of my pet peeves is when a restaurant doesn’t allow their wait staff to write down customer orders. I assume it’s the restaurant bc all of the servers don’t carry pen and paper bc my order is always wrong or missing something.. π€π€
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I never got when a server wouldn’t write down the order. I know I’d forget half of it as soon as I left the table…
and yes, the laughing was worth some extra points… π
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jim, you are so right and thank you for this! as a woman who worked her way through school as a waitress, bartender, caterer, and cocktail waitress, you are the perfect customer – jim jokes and all
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my wife did the same thing, an impressive feat for sure.
I’m sure it’s not easy to laugh at bad jokes all day… π
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I have never understood where they make you wait for ever for the check. Table space in a restaurant is premium real estate. The sooner they can get you fed and away from that table, the sooner they can park more customers there. Oh well, I am not in the restaurant biz so i guess I don’t get it.
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I’m with you; it just makes no sense to keep someone waiting for the check. The only benefit is that the longer it takes, the more money I save on the tip…
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I agree, don’t get it!
I do know that Cara doesn’t keep her customers waiting for their check. Such a great waitress. π
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Cara seems almost to good to be true π
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Nah!! Though the way she acts when on a sugar high, may be a little unrealistic! π
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it’s an endearing quality… π
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“Haha!”
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Sounds like the perfect combination between a good server and a deserving customer! What did you eat?
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I had some kung pao cauliflower as an appetizer and an Impossible Burger for dinner – both were quite tasty!
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Sounds delicious!
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it was almost as good as the service! π
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Good service takes a good meal to a whole new level. Add in personality, smiles and laughter and it becomes a perfect experience.
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and that’s what it was, and what inspired me to write the post…
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That’s such a rare thing to have happen indeed, having someone take pride in their work.
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you hit the nail on that head; taking pride in what you do is what it boils down to…
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The delay in bringing the bill also irritates me, as well as not being able to find your waitron when you are ready to pay!
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yes, those are probably my two most annoying behaviors as well!
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Great list. I could make one of those for health care people to follow, too. Different offices give off such different vibes and some don’t think that customer service is even part of their job. π
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I agree; most doctor’s offices could care less that you are there visiting, so it is a pleasant surprise when you are greeted with a hearty hello!
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I’ve been to both. Hospitals, too, especially during COVID, it’s probably hard to take time to be kind, cheerful and friendly. Then poof, you’re in the habit. π Besides, if you wear a mask, who needs to smile, right?
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you’re right about the masks; they don’t help the situation at all…
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They make it easy not to make connections. Drop our eyes or wear sunglasses and we are invisible.
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and if that’s the case, you wonder why someone would work in a customer facing job…
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True, but when you gotta work, you gotta work. π
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that’s true; if I lost my job, I would take any job that came along…
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Eventually. And kids need guidance in knowing when eventually is.
My step son came home from an interview when, at age 25 he had moved in with my new husband and me. He wasn’t working or going to school and informed me that he didn’t need a job “like that.” I lost my cool and told him that he was an old man who needed to go to work and live on his own. His “Dad said I could live here while I finished school” argument didn’t work with step-mom.
He moved out, went to work and back to school, became a teacher, then moved on from that. Baby steps to success. Now, 26 years later, I have a son to be proud of – and so does his dad. π
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sometimes young adults need a reality check, and you gave him one that worked well…
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I was rather pleased with myself and my new parenting skills. LOL If he hadn’t flown on his own, though I didn’t have a plan b.
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sometimes not having a Plan B is the key…
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Yeah drop the idea entirely and move on to a different topic. π
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or not having a Plan B makes you go all in on Plan A… π
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Good point. But plan Bs make a great story or film. π
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I agree, it is nice to see someone take a advantage of a second chance…
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Yes.
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All as it should be. Looks like a great time. π
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yes, it should be like that, but many times it is not. and we did have a wonderful time…
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I can imagine. π
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Not all restaurants follow the basic courtesy. I have had bad experiences in quite a number of cases. I have seen waiters whi are frowning all the time, mostly will wait for your the customers to ask to clean up after something has spilled over. Impolite ones wont even ask you for a feedback and whether everything was fine. However some restaurants have real polite staffs, who add to the experience of a nice ambience and food.
#MyWordsKraft
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yes, the bad ones make the good ones look even better…
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