I was leaving the grocery store parking lot when I noticed an older gentleman, perhaps in his late 70s, early 80s, walking gingerly across the snowy parking lot with a shopping bag in one hand, and a small bouquet of flowers in the other.
And I thought to myself, true love.
Two minutes later I was stopped at a red light and I saw a young man, maybe 15 years old, coming out of a drug store carrying a small bouquet of flowers.
And I thought to myself, first love.
Is that what the older gentleman was like at that age?
Would this young man grow up to be like the older gentleman?
Did the flowers have something to do with Valentine’s Day, or was it just because they felt like giving flowers?
So many questions, without any answers.
But I do know one thing – I need to step up my game…
I bought my wife a dozen roses, every Tuesday evening for years. Itβs a simple, yet heartfelt act that she appreciated. The cashiers at Publix, at first would ask if I did anything wrong? Then they got to know my routine.
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what a nice tradition!
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Awh! So sweet! I remember my husband surprising me with flowers on our 3month wedding anniversary. π
He still is good at surprises!
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that’s a nice surprise…. π
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He is a keeper!
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True love or just a habit? I hope it’s the former.
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I hope so too!
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I have only ever received flowers from my husband once, Jim. I am not a fan. Cut flowers are a fag to deal with when you are busy entertaining. He also used to buy me jewelry and I’ve managed to put a stop to that too. Men buy gifts for their wives that their mothers like.
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well you can’t fault him for trying; hopefully he knows what you like by now… π
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The circle of life thing at work here. The ending is what made this story though, lol. I too need to step up my game.
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yes, indeed. the circle of life. It’s a good thing I’ve got a couple of days to figure something out…
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Going with flowers unexpectedly is always a solid move. Don’t wait until Valentine’s Day when everyone else is doing the same thing.
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now you tell me… π
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Exactly! You were trained right. LOL!
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The dog and I are doing our best.π
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Good job! π
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that’s all anyone can expect… π
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Ha, ha I know what you mean about stepping up the game. Due to the situation this year have kept gifts small, my brother in law however has bought his SO a gold bracelet!
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how nice of your brother in law, but it puts the pressure on the rest of us… π
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I’m with Pete, it’s the unexpected flowers that are the best! flowers are one of my very favorite gifts
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If you really want to impress your SO, but the flowers inside a Dooney and Burke purse when you gift them. Nothing says “I love you” like overpriced leather goods.
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I never heard of Dooney and Burke so I checked out their web site. It’s probably the last time I’ll check it out as well. π
I think the flowers look just as nice in the cellophane wrappers they come in π
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Yeah, no reason to overdo.
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I think there’s a lot to be said for being understated…
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Flowers??? I think my hubby like you Jim needs to step up his game…although flowers here just don’t last but an orchid plant now and again wouldn’t come amiss…sigh
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hmmm… you may have given me an idea… π
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Orchids are always a wife pleaser..
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that’s good to know!
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Love this Jim.
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thanks, David!
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I have bought my wife flowers frequently over the 63 years we have been married. She appreciates the thought, mind you chocolates go down just as well!
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congrats on the 63 years – the flowers and chocolates must work!
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Special surprises define a couple’s journey of lasting love. Each ties their love together with another blessed ribbon.
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what a beautiful way of expressing it, Richard.
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The old man and boy is a great observation and comparison. When the boy ages, he will probably be like the old man. When he was young, the old man may not have been like the boy. Live and learn. It is a lot easier to lose points on Valentine’s Day than it is to win them (IMO).
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I think you are right about the points system π
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I love when my husband brings me flowers! Especially in winter!!
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that’s good to know! π
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Just be nice, thoughtful, and considerate always and there will be no need for these manufactured activities π
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I agree that such actions should form the bedrock of any relationship. But sometimes it is nice to surprise or offer some form of recognition for what the person means to you…
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Of course, but should it be at a specific date?
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I’m with you on these artificially created dates; Hallmark is the one who benefits the most!
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I’m getting my wife a potted plant for Val Day. She likes potted plants. That’s why I behave like one so often.
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Potted plants are a nice gift. The problem is I kill them.
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Me too. I kill them with negligence. But my wife has a green thumb. She loves to baby her plants.
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My Mom has a green thumb too but she didn’t pass it down to me!
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It must be a recessive gene.
I make a lousy horticulturist, also. I prefer Mother Nature. The job she does, growing beautiful flowers, is good enough for me.
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maybe the key to having a green thumb is having an index finger longer than your ring finger. somebody should research this…
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Hmmm…wonder where you got that idea. LOL!
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to follow up on my previous comment; does this suggest that she babies you?
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Hmm, well she showers me with care at times, but when I’m feeling grumpy, she leafs me alone.
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I hope she doesn’t prune you…
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Groaning! Don’t encourage him!
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She can prune me all she wants. Just as long as she doesn’t transplant me.
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or do stem cell research on you…
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..mmm…!
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Though I wouldn’t mind some cross-pollination research.
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But I mind! π
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I think I’m digging myself into a hole. I’m throwing this shovel away before things get deeper.
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Yeah right, you can’t throw the shovel away. Its attached to you by an invisible string, just like mine is!
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Then I’m going to cut that invisible string. If I can only find it.
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just have someone start pulling the shovel away from you…
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Nobody ever does that. They just keep handing it back to me.
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good point; I guess most people have their own shovel they carry with them through life…
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And someone I know who shall remain nameless, wears her shovel out often, and must constantly keep buying new ones. Right Carolyn?
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she must be in an amazon subscription plan for shovels…
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That would be prudent of her.
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I replied to you and it went to the bottom 2x! π
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So, you’re sinking to new lows, eh?
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Smart aleck!
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That seems better than a dum-dum…
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Not sure… I liked those dum-dum lollipops! π
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I still do…
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WordPress isnβt the greatest at keeping comments straight…
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Not quite! π
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Itβs usually a good deal… π
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…mmm…!!
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Good luck!
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Thank you. I’m sure you mean it.
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Oooh most definitely!
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it must be a pain to walk around during the day…
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“Haha!” Smartie!
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but the deeper the root, the healthier the plant (I think, I just made that up…)
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Maybe that’s why carrots are said to be healthy.
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they are?
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Not a lover of this tuberous vegetable, eh?
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raw, yes. cooked, no…
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I agree.
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So do I!
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you don’t understand the pressure these researchers are under – publish or perish…
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that seems like some fertile soil to explore…
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It could keep one busy as a bee.
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sounds like a stolen quote…
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Probably stolen from some Lothario who tried to pollinate every flower in town.
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that would keep him busy, but also create a few enemies…
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The bumblebees would kick his ass.
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and what if they invaded the killer bees territory…
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The place would be abuzz with activity.
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I see that its time for me to …smack my head… down on my pillow!
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Good night!
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Good nigbt! You can pun away with Jim, I will be snoozing. π
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Just like a potted plant.
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with all that head smacking, I guess you could call it snoozin’ and bruisin’…
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best part of the day!
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are you suggesting that you kill Tippy when he acts like a potted plant? π
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Hmmm…..Me?? LOL! Potted plants can’t talk and they don’t know puns , so nope wouldn’t kill him. π
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but wine and coffee might…
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LOL! Nope!
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are you just another number in her collection of potted plants?
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Probably so, although she feeds me a little different from the rest. Reminds me of the show, Little Shop of Horrors.
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yes, that show does come to mind π
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I donβt get flowers but my husband cooks. The way to my heart is through my stomach.
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such an approach would likely not go well for me, or my wife π
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Ha ha. Great wee post jim. I’ll expect delivery of your bouquet any day now…
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the shipping costs were a wee bit high; so here you go…π
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Brilliant. Knew you and i were the real thing….
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How do you know the old man is not giving it to his first love? hehehe π Happy Valentines Jim!
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good point – that would make it even sweeter!
Happy Valentine’s Day, Jessica!
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Oooh the comments I miss seeing til hours later!
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That older gentleman could have been my husband if he wasn’t in the hospital. Always a romantic card and roses. So far, I’m still waiting for 2020 to end. π
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your husband sounds like quite the guy; I hope his health issues become manageable and you can put an end to 2020…
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Thanks Jim. He’s still in hospitable getting tested head to toe during high alert Covid times. I’m running on fumes but will definitely reporting on next week. And just maybe I can walk into 2021 π
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That’s good that your husband is being so closely monitored. I am sure it is exhausting to you, both physically and mentally. I wish both of you the best…
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Thanks Jim π
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This is adorable! Short and sweetπ
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thanks, Jaimie!
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