Seth Godin had a post last week about the importance of doing things in the right order. Here is the post, it’s a brief one:
If you put the jelly on before the peanut butter, the sandwich will fail.
And if you try to spread the peanut butter on the plate and then add the bread, it will fail even worse.
Like so many things, the order is not optional.
And yet, we often do the least-scary or easiest parts first, regardless of what the order of operations tells us.
I’ve probably made thousands of PB&J sandwiches in my lifetime, so I consider myself somewhat of an expert.
When I started making my own sandwich, probably around 10 years old, I would first spread the peanut butter on the bread and then put the jelly right on top of it, on the same slice of bread. I would then cover it with the empty slice of bread, and Voila! I had a PB&J sandwich. As Seth notes, if you put the jelly on first, and then try to put the peanut butter right over top, it is going to be a messy affair.
However, it didn’t take me long to realize that it was much easier to put the peanut butter on one slice and the jelly on the other slice, and then press the two slices together. And Voila! you’ve got a PB&J. It was much easier to make this way, and it didn’t matter if you started with the peanut butter slice or the jelly slice. Perhaps Seth is suffering from functional fixedness, thinking there is only one way to make a PB&J.
Here’s a link to a WikiHow on making a PB&J sandwich. Even though this shows the peanut butter being spread before the jelly, you will notice it doesn’t matter which one you do first.
There was even a story and a poll about the right way to make a PB&J sandwich.
Of course, some people might have a problem with the final step, combining the two slices, as shown by this tweet:
But that wasn’t the end of my concern about Seth’s post. The next item he notes is to make sure you don’t put the peanut butter on the plate first, and then put the bread on next. Is that something he learned through trial and error? I wonder how many people have ever made such a mistake?
Anyway, it got me thinking about other tasks where the order of operation might be important:
- do you put dirty clothes in the dryer first and then the washer, or is it the other way? Does it matter?
- do you take a shower, and then get dressed, or do you get dressed and then step into the shower fully clothed?
- speaking of getting dressed, should I put my undergarments on first, and then my outerwear, or would it be OK to do that in reverse order?
- should I give my tests first, and then use the next several classes to teach what was on the test, or is it the other way around? Would my students do any better if I tried giving the test first?
- should I think first before I start writing my blog posts, or should I just start writing, and then think about it after I hit Publish? For any of you who have read my blog before, you know that very little thought goes into anything I write…
I’m guessing Seth knows the proper order to do all these tasks in, but I just wonder if he also had to learn these through trial and error…
I can’t imagine putting peanut butter on a plate, and then trying to spread it on the bread. But apparently, someone named Seth tried this. I’ll bet he butters his bread before he puts it in the toaster. And perhaps he eats his oranges before he peels them. Strange.
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Eating peeled oranges? No thanks! 🙂
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What’s wrong with peeled oranges?
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Oh gosh! I meant unpeeled oranges!
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I’m sure you did. But I’m starting to wonder if Colin is right about that ESL course.
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“Haha!” Nooo! Its called being distracted by 2 stooges and trying to type on 2 different threads at the same time, doolally!
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I guess that thing about women being good multi-taskers is just a myth?
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…mmm…! There is a difference, smartie! I can multi-task, I can watch tv and type at the same time. LOL!
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but sometimes you type a couple of extra letters which throws off the whole meaning…
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BUT…. I am betting that certain people who wish to remain nameless knew exactly what I meant to say! 😝
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you may need to offer a retraction, and an apology…
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Haha! Don’t think that is going to happen! 😂
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the Fonz was able to do it… 🙂
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You just had to go there! LOL!
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🙂
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at least in this case…
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Tippy already beat me to commenting about multi-tasking…
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Sooo nice how what one doesn’t get the other one will!
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you’ve got a loyal following who’ve got your back…
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Haha! Yes, I do have some of the most “thoughtful” followers! 🙂
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indeed you do!
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I need to take a course in current idioms, such as LOL and other such new terms that weren’t around 30 years ago…
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I wouldn’t, if I were you. Idiom school is for idiots.
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there’s probably some connection between the words…
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Idiom is the official language of idiots. That’s what I think, and I wasn’t born yesterday.
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even more reason for me to study it then…
and I just didn’t fall off the turnip truck…
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it’s amazing the difference two letters can make…
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… mmm…!!
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I’m glad somebody is sticking up for peeled oranges…
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Carolyn was giving them a bad rap.
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I am sooo sure that I hurt their feelings!
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It didn’t citrus well with them.
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How sad! Makes me groan!
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Orange you glad the subject of this fruit came up?
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Sooo glad I almost want to …smack my head…!
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banana…
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🙂
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I knew someone would pick up on this. I’ll gladly take a peeled orange off your hands if you don’t want it…
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😜
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So thoughtful of you!
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as I said, we’ve got your back…
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it would be awful trying to clean that plate, and buttering your bread first sounds like a good way to start a fire.
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Doing it the way you suggest would result in a half portion of peanut butter. I like to put peanut butter on both slices of bread. If I’m feeling extravagant I also put butter on both slices. If you are a poor college student, and you are looking in your cupboards and realize that you have peanut butter and jelly and spaghetti noodles the thought may cross your mind that pasta is a kind of bread, and that making PB&J pasta would be a good way to stretch your food budget. Don’t do it. It will not end well.
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I read about people who put PB on both sides or who add butter. Not my style, but to each his own. And I’ll take your word on the pasta…
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Over here in Wisconsin some people are known to add cheese.
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now I think I’m going to be sick…
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You’re welcome.
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Not that I would make a PB&J but if I did it would be peanut butter on one slice and jam on the other then marry the two together.
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that seems like the ideal way to make it. (And you don’t know what you’re missing…) 🙂
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I ate thousands of them when at school. With apricot jam which was probably made from pumpkin and never saw an apricot haha. Now I like Bovril and peanut butter.
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SO the school was tricking everyone while trying to save some money, I guess! I’m not sure I could get myself to try PB and Bovril…
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Oh, we didn’t get school lunches like you do. These were made for us by our domestic worker. We had tuck shop where you could buy stuff. But that was a treat. Other favourites would be cheese and chutney.
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I’d never heard of the phrase tuck shop – just looked it up. thanks for the new word!
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Oh the subjects you come up with! LOL! Yes, why would one put pb on a plate and hey if you want to put your outergarments on first and then your undergarments I think your students would be very entertained!
Thinking before you write, who does that? Does that mean one should have some inkling of what Part 2 is going to be about before writing …to be continued..?
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I always like how quickly you are able to adapt your part twos to the feedback you receive. Does that mean you don’t know where part two is going even once you have finished part one?
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Thank you and you are funny! I don’t even know that my Part 1’s are going to be Part 1’s at time! So no. I typically have not much of a clue where my part 2 is headed when I finish part 1. I am too busy …smacking my head… saying What did I do, by saying this story will be continued?!
The feedback I receive may make me …smack my head… more but it does help too, I can’t deny! 🙂
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it makes your stories fresh, being so spontaneous…
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Glad to know that my crazy method works! Who needs to write drafts, right?
With the “Crazy weekend” story I was planning to end it in a sweet, romantic way. And then…..Mr. Fuzzywhistle was yelling and…..the rest is history. 🙂
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it’s almost like those Choose Your Own Adventure books that were popular when our kids were much younger…
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Oh yes, my sister and I loved them! 🙂
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so did our kids…
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For long road trips they were perfect!
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nothing like a long road trip…
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I got lost somewhere in all of this. I would have already had the peanut butter sandwich eaten.
By the way, I take pride in having worn my briefs over my pants on Backwards Day at School. There is no shame when you teach elementary school.
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No jelly?
and I’m sure the kids loved you for it… 🙂
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I’m probably one of the few who hasn’t made a PB&J in years. There seems to be only one reasonable way to do it — PB one one slice and jelly on the other. I tend do do the hardest parts last; so I would agree with Godin om that.
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I agree that it seems to be the best way, and I usually agree with Godin on things as well…
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life is all about trial and error. you often learn ‘what not to do’ by doing it.
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I agree, it is one of the best ways to learn. as venture capitalists like to tell their clients “Fail Fast”…
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ah-
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Funny. We don’t do peanut butter and jelly (which I think we call jam) here, but I do (or used to) like PB and honey sandwiches. I think either of the methods you describe as successful with PB & J would work with PB & H as well.
I think it’s okay to give a pretest first and then teach what the students don’t know. I think it’s quite commonly done that way. 🙂
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I have had PB and honey before – it is quite delicious.
And yes, pretests can be quite effective. I’m just wondering if I could just give a pretest, and no follow-up… 🙂
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I’m sure you can do anything you put your mind to, Jim. 🤣
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🙂
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I did a little experiment just to test your theories. Some ways were easier than others, and by far putting the PB on the plate first left me with some challenges. However, in the end, they all tasted exactly the same. Maybe when we are all arriving at the same place, it is less important the path we took to get there.
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it seems like putting the PB on the plate first would create some problems when it is time to clean up. But I appreciate your willingness to test things out 🙂
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Whichever way you do it, to us it’s a repulsive combination. And if we did it with proper jelly (ie not jam) it would be incredibly difficult to keep it all in the sandwich 😉
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I think you should try a PB&J sandwich while listening to some rap music; it could open up a whole new world for you! 🙂
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I’ll just get the sick bucket ready…
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maybe you can flip the bucket upside down and use your hands to keep beat with the music… 🙂
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I love PB which reminds me I need to make some more but never had jam your jelly with it…maybe I should give it a go… it could be delicious I was taken by the jam in the image it looked good 🙂 x
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It’s funny how many people in the UK seemed to be so turned off to the idea of a PB&J sandwich, and in the US it is so popular…
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I suppose but there must be things we eat that you find strange I know when we visited we used to ask for our tomatoes to be cooked with our breakfast and that was strange to the server and to my family my brother in law Donny tried them cooked and loved them and now his wife has to cook his whereas before they also had cold tomatoes…. I will try them together just because when I make some more PB…x
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my wife loves tomatoes, so I am sure she would not mind having her tomatoes cooked. is that the same thing as stewed tomatoes? I believe in the U.S. South, Fried Green Tomatoes are popular.
I do remember finding the traditional Irish breakfast kind of disgusting, and I so wanted to like it!
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No its not they are sliced and fried so they soften and go a little brown…love them with a breakfast :)x Very similar to a full English breakfast …I do like the American breakfasts though ..cinnamon toast, eggs, crispy bacon grits a scone although you call it a biscuit…x
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I used to love the classic American breakfast…
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Had a wee laugh at this, thanks jim!
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thanks, Peter! mission accomplished 🙂
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I like tinned peaches sliced onto mine
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now that is one I have not heard of!
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I’m a peculiar European transplant. I make mine with apricot jam and sliced tinned peaches. My American son always looks at me like I’m an alien.
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that is quite the unique combo!
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You just proved that thinking outside of the box is key.
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🙂
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Wait you’re supposed to take the shower before you get dressed?? Whoa…
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Apparently!
I haven’t been able to find a YouTube video on how to properly take a shower, so that’s been part of the problem…
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Now I’m hungry for a Peanut butter and jelly sandwich!!
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any time of day is good for one!
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Reminds me of the “Contrary Warrior” in “Little Big Man.” Good stuff.
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I can’t say I’m familiar with that reference, but I like the sound of the Contrary Warrior…
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Classic film from 1970 starring Dustin Hoffman based on the novel by Thomas Berger. Very funny. Committed the sin of using white actors to portray Native Americans, as was common then. The scene I reference features a contrary warrior who is the most feared because he’s somewhat crazy from doing everything backwards all his life – saying “hello” to mean “goodbye,” washing with dirt and drying with water and so on.
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now it makes sense; thanks for the explanation!
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Can’t stand peanut sorry, but very written
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Omg. This is too funny. I too am a lover of PB&J’s and have always put jelly on one slice and pb on the other and smushed them together.
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seems like the right way to make one to me!
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