Comparison Is the Thief of Joy

I had never heard of this saying about comparison, even though it is credited to Theodore Roosevelt. The expression refers to the notion that comparing your work, your life, or whatever else will only serve to make you unhappy. I came across the saying while readingĀ an interview with Adam Grant, Wharton professor and successful author. … Continue reading Comparison Is the Thief of Joy

Just Because It’s in The New York Times Doesn’t Mean It’s True

The photo above was found in one of my college yearbooks, as I took a trip down memory lane this weekend. What's striking about the photo is that the young woman is smoking a cigarette, in the student union. Now back then, no one gave such an action much thought. But could you imagine what … Continue reading Just Because It’s in The New York Times Doesn’t Mean It’s True

40 Years Ago Today – Nerd Meets Girl, Makes New York Times

Today is a big day for my wife and I; it was 40 years ago today that we met at a college party. I've written about that special night before, so I won't repeat it here. But as I was reminiscing about that day, I decided to go back and check the news to see … Continue reading 40 Years Ago Today – Nerd Meets Girl, Makes New York Times

But Then How Do You Get Better, Dan?

Dan Ariely, everyone's favorite behavioral economist, gave an interesting answer to one of this week's letters to him in the Wall Street Journal. Here is the letter: After performance reviews at work, many of my colleagues started boasting about how much they had excelled. Since I didn’t do as well, I couldn’t help feeling discouraged. … Continue reading But Then How Do You Get Better, Dan?

I Wonder If It’s Just as Gross at an Airbnb

The Huffington Post had a story today about the five germiest places in a hotel room. Nothing on the list really surprised me, once I gave it some thought: tv remote bed comforter or duvet drinking glasses lamp/light switch housekeeping materials (the cart) But I also must admit that I don't think about these issues … Continue reading I Wonder If It’s Just as Gross at an Airbnb

“I Love Veggie Burgers”, Said No One, Ever… Until Now

I've been a fan of the Great American Pub in Wayne for a while now. It's got a nice neighborhood feel, to it, a great sidewalk for dining al fresco, and a menu that will please a variety of palates. In particular, it's one of the few non-vegan restaurants I know of that has a … Continue reading “I Love Veggie Burgers”, Said No One, Ever… Until Now

My Best Friend’s Girl

It was one of my favorite songs (and bands) to listen to on my 8-track while I was in college, and it (and they) still are today. The cover of the album (shown above) was also a classic. So I was quite happy when they were inducted into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame … Continue reading My Best Friend’s Girl

What’s Wrong with People?

I read the following headline and I felt sick to my stomach: Kangaroo Dies After Visitors At Chinese Zoo Hurl Rocks To Force Her To Jump What would motivate someone to behave in such a way? Part of the problem, in my opinion, is in the mistaken belief by many that animals are not sentient … Continue reading What’s Wrong with People?

BDALPGWĀ® – the Borden Diet and Lifestyle Program for Gaining WeightĀ©

I came back from our trip to London a few pounds above my ideal weight, and so I set a goal for myself to lose the extra pounds by June 1. And I'm here to report that I've had mixed results. I've actually gained three pounds in the three weeks we've been home, and while … Continue reading BDALPGWĀ® – the Borden Diet and Lifestyle Program for Gaining WeightĀ©

Meet The Newest Member of the Borden Family!

I'd like to take this opportunity to introduce you to the newest member of the Borden family. It's been two weeks now since the arrival, and the past 14 days have been wonderful. To be honest, I can't even remember what my life was like before then. While this is a whole new experience for … Continue reading Meet The Newest Member of the Borden Family!